Little Stars, Great Tradition: The Origin of Wedding Attendants

The bride’s entrance into the church, walking amidst the gazes of family and friends, her future husband eagerly waiting for her by his side—undoubtedly one of the most emotional moments of a wedding. And such a special occasion calls for the company of the most adorable members of the family: the little ones, who often take on the role of flower girls and ring bearers. Given the intimate nature of the moment, these children are usually nieces, nephews, godchildren, or other youngsters who are closely connected to the couple.

Flower Girls and Ring Bearers: Who Are They?

Historically, wedding attendants had a similar role—they were children of nobility who helped the bride with her gown (which was often quite heavy) and carried other valuable items such as the rings. At the same time, they were seen as a good omen for the marriage, ensuring fertility. Even today, the significance of wedding attendants remains tied to innocence, vitality, and a symbol of happiness and good luck for the couple.

What Roles Do the Flower Girls and Ring Bearers Play?

In many weddings, the path to the altar becomes a trail of petals, carefully scattered by the flower girls and boys carrying small baskets. But that’s not all—they also serve as the adorable companions of the bride and groom both at the entrance and the exit. Additionally, the older attendants may hold the bride’s veil, and they often carry the wedding rings and arras.

This is why there are various accessories for each of these tasks: wooden boxes, embroidered hoops, velvet ribbons, wicker baskets with flowers, and more—each designed to complement the theme of the ceremony.

How Many Flower Girls and Ring Bearers Do I Need for a Wedding?

There is no set number of flower girls and ring bearers for a wedding. The number of children in the wedding party is entirely up to the couple. However, when it comes to the memories captured in photos, the liveliness, energy, and color that children bring to any celebration, having at least three or four children is ideal. It’s also worth remembering that the entrance can feel overwhelming for little ones, and being surrounded by other children can help ease their nerves.

How Should Flower Girls and Ring Bearers Be Dressed?

Our flower girls and ring bearers herald the arrival of the bride, the main star of the day. Therefore, their attire should match the wedding’s ambiance, blending into the romantic and sweet atmosphere of the occasion. Tulle, whether dotted, floral, or plain, is one of the most popular fabrics for dressing our flower girls and boys.

Additionally, we often choose soft or pastel shades like ivory, mint green, or dusty hues, using fabrics that flow gracefully and evoke sweetness. However, a key detail not to overlook is that today, weddings often revolve around a specific color—this main color appears in the flowers, the carpet, the glassware, the bridal bouquet, and more.

Thus, we can highlight this color in the accessories of our flower girls and boys, such as their shoes, sashes, hair flowers, socks, and so on.

And of course, flowers are the essential element in any ceremony. They bring freshness, light, joy, and charm to any space, creating a beautifully adorned setting. That’s why all our dresses are accompanied by floral accessories, as we know flowers are a must-have in any flower girl or ring bearer look.